Sail into the Depths of yourself with DIP Pro


After finishing the DIP Lite course I was ready for the next challenge: SRA 1.

The positive anticipation and expectations I had after the good experiences with DIP Lite made me quite excited to start on this one. And I must say, my expectations were met – and even surpassed as to be honest, as I really and thoroughly enjoyed the course.

The build-up of the course makes complete sense. It starts off with the composition of the Mind in three fundamental layers and how these are represented within our minds. As you are introduced to and working with these layers your understanding of the/your Mind expands; understanding more of how our thinking and acting comes about. And through practice the ability to uncover more and more of yourself grows – peeling off layer after layer – which intensifies the process in terms of engagement, excitability and confrontation of yourself with yourself. For as you progress and become apt at penetrating deeper you will discover parts of yourself/the mind that are baffling, not so pretty and actually quite shocking at times. I remember the many times I sat behind my computer, exclaiming: “Oh my God oh my God… Is this me? Yes, it must be… Holy shits!” And this is not because I am particularly weird or disturbed, it’s that you start discovering and seeing certain inherent properties of the Mind in itself that are … well, quite fucked-up I would almost say, pardon my French.

Granted, coming to the ‘revelations’ will take a little digging and sweating in the beginning but when you do discover those deeper layers of yourself – actually realizing and seeing how you (as the Mind) are approaching yourself, others and the world – you will value the time spent working at it. Hit that first realization ‘that knocks you off your socks’ and you are sold.

Naturally, within this, you have to realize that it will get a bit messy at times. Don’t expect all golden treasure chests filled with fragrant flowers that is you – be ready to open some sewers as well. And that’s what actually counts and makes this Process so worthwhile. It’s reality in your face, and it’s who you are unmasked and butt-naked. And often this ‘you’ is angry, afraid, ignorant and in denial. And you bet that this can be confrontational for sure. But know this: this is necessary and this is where it starts. When you’re really self-honest and are willing and daring to step into this, into yourself, with open eyes, you are giving yourself a gift for self-knowledge that is unparalleled and preciousss. It’s a gift unlike any I came across in my life (and I’ve seen a thing or two), enabling the unwrapping of yourself through setting sail for some serious self-explorative adventures, voyaging into the unveiling and deconstructing of atomic landscapes of who you think you are. And within this you’re starting to discover how inversed thinking and dysfunction has been allowed to run in the background, subtly (or blatantly) controlling you and your behavior through assumptions that are straight-on irrational, perversive and counterproductive. Yes, messy, but – holy smokes – it’s worth sailing into it, despite the rockiness of the inner seas.

And: good news just turned better! For seeing the Mind/’you’ for what it is – is the start. Then one proceeds to releasing the energy of the crap you want to get rid of through Self-Forgiveness. Practice a bit, become good at it, and you will notice the effects growing stronger and intensifying. It’s really an ‘energetic’ release of the accumulated mind-trash – a release that can turn physical in its discharge (in my experience). But that’s not all! Of course, we also go and correct ourselves, for we want to have something nice to replace that which we don’t want. Hoppa, and so we forge Self-Corrective statements, stating what you want and what you will let go of. So you see it, realize it, and stand by it through standing up for, by, and as yourself. And let me tell you, after seeing some of the shrewd hocus pocus tricks of the Mind you do want the change.

Ok, that just described the process of self-unwrapping of the sweet cookie that’s you. And you’ll get the hang of it at a certain point going through the exercises. Speaking of, the exercises themselves are also very cool and illustrative. They lead you through different kinds of characters that are embodied ‘as us’ through our automatic participating with our ‘programming’. These characters come onto the scene and present themselves dramatically as you, making you think, feel and do all kinds of stuff that limits and hampers you – like being fearful of our own shadows, becoming angry at others because they represent parts of ourselves we don’t like, blaming others for our own faults, denying self-responsibility so we you don’t have to look at ourselves and more of that kinda greasy opportunistic stuff that won’t make you a more stable, happier or authentic human being. And I must say: I enjoyed the most of these lessons with twinkly, hungry eyes. The examples given are also very practical and recognizable, good for evoking a burst of laughter every now and then, for it makes you see the ridicule of what is actually going on inside our little fretting minds. It makes you realize that it’s actually all quite the joke.

So I thoroughly enjoyed the course. Though, a word of warning here: sometimes I did experience resistance with the writing, thinking: “Oh golly, there I have to go again. This will take a couple of hours of plowing through stuff. Pfff.” But as soon as I pushed through this little wall of resistance presenting itself as something ‘important’, and when I just started with it, I usually got into the fascination and enjoyment of the process again even before finishing my first paragraph of writing – for I was again opening up layers that disclosed the mysteries of myself and my own behavior. And I mean, what is more fascinating than getting to know yourself, to work on your issues and create opportunities for change; by yourself? I mean, if that ain’t pretty awesome I don’t know what is.

— Testimonial by L.V.

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Agreements: Redefining Relationships – Review

Andreas shares his experience of walking the “Agreements: Redefining Relatinoships” Course of DIP PRo:


“Within the last few years of walking the Desteni Relationship and Agreement Course, I have been going through quite a lot. A lot has changed within me and my world. I have moved from the countryside to a city, from being a student to working a job, from living and walking alone to living with another and walking an agreement with a partner.

Though the Course didn´t magically get me a partner, through walking it, I created the preconditions to embrace the opportunity of walking an agreement with another being when it opened up.

When I started walking the course I was very isolated with only minor social interaction. I was living alone and my last relationship was six years gone. Now I realize that, I was very afraid of relationships and had created a big resistance towards them. The relationship and agreement course helped me to see that this fear and resistance is actually a fear and resistance towards myself, to parts of me, things within me that I would rather not face. Facing, changing and integrating those parts of oneself is a vital/crucial step to unify oneself, to actually become equal and one, which is the foundation for any real relationship or agreement with another person/partner

In the Course I have learned the fundamental tools of writing and self-forgiveness, and how to use them to assist and support myself in facing and unifying my Self. You will be guided through the points and patterns that commonly make relationships fall and you will be presented with and see effective solutions to master those challenges. Besides gaining an in-depth understanding of how relationships and agreements work, I could also work on and change some more personal points like procrastination, resistances and being unspecific in my writing.

A really awesome part of the course is the redefining and living of words, where one is opening up a whole world of potential for self-creation and creating one’s relationships.

I am really grateful for the buddy-system, the chats with my buddy were always supportive and helped me clarify and direct points in my life and relationships. Through the Agreement Course I have built trust in myself to be able to define, investigate and solve the problems and challenges an agreement and relationships may present me with. I am confident that I am able to create and live relationships that are supportive for me and others.

— Andreas”

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How DIP Lite Improved my Life

Klavdija shares the changes she has noticed in her life after she started using the DIP Lite tools:

I sdiplite-improved-my-lifetarted with DIP Lite in December 2014 when I start with the course. I was doing it almost every day. I learn a lot about me and how I work. Now I know that all people have similar problems. DIP Lite course gives you a good basic understanding about how to change yourself.

I have a lot of pimples on my face, but now it is cleaner. I had painful menstruations too. The pain was so strong that I had to take a pill the first day of menstruation. Then I talked with someone about this problem and he gave me a link to the post about it. I read it. There it was explained why we have painful menstruation. We hate our body. Because of this, I decide to write a blog on this subject, because I know how to write to help myself which is what I learned through the course and when I started to write a blog. I see the results. Lately it does not hurt so much and I don’t need the pills anymore.

I know that this is only the beginning and that I must work more on accepting my body, but this is the beginning of my change to a better life. I see changes in other parts of my life as well. DIP Lite course gave me the basic knowledge on how to improve my life.

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From Alcoholic to Self-Responsible Individual with the DIP Tools

Jan shares his journey in walking the DIP Lite and DIP Pro courses, how he has empowered himself to stand up from alcoholism to become a self-responsible individual:


“I no longer believe that my existence is up to you. From now on it’s up to me. But who is you and me?

During my DIP PRO writing investigation I learned skills which support me to recognize my ability and responsibility. This process started during the DIP LITE course by knowing, seeing, understanding and listening to my self-accepted patterns and expectations. The PRO shows me deeper and more specific skills to be free of my reactions caused by my own thoughts and memories. To in this – see, realise and understand how I’ve been able to internally communicate within/as the extent that I do. This extent named as the mind.

I learned to see my own blame-thoughts and expectations, which I didn’t realized, see and understand in moments of mind-speak. Thoughts that blend with my feelings and emotions. That is how it was possible that I mixed my feelings, during the times when I pointed my finger against others, just because my interpretations and acts as my mind told me to do.

During walking I realized that my progression of new Life results often in disappointing experiences. I realized this because of the ‘why questions’ I asked myself, which showed me the importance of seeing and understand the beginning and the existence of the mind starting points as me in me, as the occurrence of my unfulfilled child’s desires, demands and expectations.

I realized that those old expectations, which I created as my own thoughts, feelings and emotions, had often been replaced by new ones. I replaced the old ones with new ones. And so I compared my new decisions whit old information. Old stuff based on my own accepted and allowed interpretations, had been walking around as my/the mind existence and expectations.

So, more and more, step by step, I realized that my/the first step to take was recognize the existence of first ancient initial expectations was one important part of my journey to Life. The second one is recognize and acknowledge the mind as a separate section within E.Y.E.

My awareness journey started when I came to a point in my life that I ended up in a crisis. The cry within me for external attention reached its peak. I drank a lot of alcohol and got suicidal. I was frustrated and confused and fled away from my feelings and emotions. I did not dare to commit suicide, caused by my doubt and fear of the unknown. So I decided to dial 112/911 and told the operator my plan that I wanted to commit suicide. But in my mind actually I longed for recognition and appreciation. So when the officers came to my house they made a proposal. Whether we bring you to a psychiatric hospital, ore you voluntarily go to start with rehab?

From this point in my life it became my responsibility. So you have to make other choices the officers also told me. Because the next time we come to your door we will know what to do. It’s up to you!!! At this stage I was not familiar with the fact that my mind created my own fears, feelings and emotions which controlled my Self-honest physical awareness.

During the journey I learned to watch and become aware of my mind-self and recognized what my thoughts were telling me to do when I move and what moves me. So now, when I recognize a pattern or thought in myself, I introspect and I Move Myself, instead of automatically reacting or drinking beers.
This system I’ve seen in others when I’d been pointing my finger, was my mind existing. During writing and walking I learned to recognize, supported by my DIP LITE and PRO buddies and other Destonians, the blame game I played in/as my own mind-construct.

I realize that this is my responsibility concerns which I’m sincerely facing. I do not drink alcohol anymore for three years and when mind points popup I Stop and Breathe myself out of the reactions in my mind and honestly face my fear resistance instead of drinking beers. The physical behavioral change that took place in the moment I was faced with my fear was flight-response, which I suppressed with alcohol for 3 decades.

With self-forgiveness and self-corrective statements I’m no longer following the suppression and flight-orders of my mind.

Jan Megens”

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Taking a Risk to Investigate Desteni


“If I didn’t take a risk, then I wouldn’t have been who I am right now. I took a risk by investigating Desteni and what it has to offer and what it means. I took a risk by undertaking the DIP Lite course. I didn’t know what was ahead for me, when investigating Desteni, or doing the DIP Lite course. But, the risk paid off. Now, I’m a changed person in every way, shape or form – the person who I had no idea I could be, someone who is worthy of life, and the title of life, being life.

Stepping into the unknown can be scary at first. It’s so tempting to just stick to the ‘easy route’ and the route that one knows well, and to never veer off that route, but within doing so, one doesn’t experience/learn what else exists outside of this pre-determined route and self-created route. Expanding oneself is so damn cool! I can see within myself, that I can actually be whatever I want to be. I can have whatever job that I want. There is nothing in reality that is stopping me from doing what I want/being what I want – that is what I learnt through investigating Desteni/doing the DIP Lite course.

Investigating Desteni is to release the shackles that one does not even know they are in. But, even the faintest idea of ‘something not being right’ whether within oneself/something externally, that in itself is worth checking out. Nothing else out there is similar in any way, shape or form to what Desteni has to offer all. It provides the tools for ANY question that one has. It has the remedy for any shackle one believes themselves to be in.

So, take a risk, take a chance, take a shot – yes it’s unknown territory, but if you never go to that territory, then you’ll never know what opportunities exist for yourself to grow exponentially in every way, shape and form. Investigate Desteni, realise the potential that you can be, that we can all be, as life – it’s never too late.”

— Anthony

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The DIP way brings you back to your core

L.V. shares the story of how he was introduced to Desteni ‘I’ Process and what he has experienced and realized when walking the free DIP Lite course:

back-to-your-core“I got acquainted with DIP Lite accidentally when I got to know someone who walked the ‘Process’. He roused my interest in the matter as what he told me made sense: that our consciousness is determined by language, and that through deeper insight and redefining ‘important’ words that define your life and mind (like ‘honesty’ or ‘love’) you are changing your perception. Changing your perception by redefining ‘your’ words equals redefining your consciousness, which is WHO YOU ARE. Taking responsibility and directive for who you are opens up the possibility to DIRECT YOUR LIFE BY CHOICE. So what you actually do is changing your life through changing your consciousness by taking the directive in living and expressing important words that you redefined in a realistic and constructive way for yourself. Words – choice – consciousness – change. It’s a simple as that.

As much as his words were reasonable, what struck me as most convincing was his demeanor: in those weeks we spent traveling together he remained stable and consistent, even in situations that would make some of us ‘shaky’. As this was an important indicator of his stability, what was even more convincing was that he always remained open, honest and relaxed in his social interactions, not being drawn into emotions and thoughts of insecurity, negativity or pretense. He was ‘aligned’ and ‘real’ you could say. This convinced me that there might be something very interesting going on. So I decided to look into this DIP thing.

As I started walking DIP Lite I discovered more and more how this simple but effective method can impact your psyche and thus the way you live your life. It sets out with obtaining more insight in your thinking and emotional processes, to proceed with dealing with the mind practically through self-forgiveness and self-corrective statements: two methods that work surprisingly well in opening yourself up, preparing you for change, to finally direct your mind in the direction YOU want it to go, in the way YOU want yourself be. So this course is very comprehensible, practical and hands-on so you can conveniently start working on your psychological foundation while opening up the road for personal change.

As a psychologist (MSc.) and lifecoach with a strong background in spirituality I have seen quite some different methods and techniques for working with the mind and initiating personal change. None of them were so fundamental and at the same time so simple, practical and grounded, which makes the DIP / Process way the winner when it comes to effectiveness and depth in becoming self-realized. The DIP way brings you back to your core, to who you are, while placing you in your directive: that is, where you want to go.

To bring it all together: I can definitely recommend to do this course, as it is an excellent introduction into the process of personal change. In this course you will learn the basics of how to investigate and shape your mind in a way that is serving you. You will learn the fundamentals of how you can come home within yourself, while setting out a path in life that will realize your utmost potential.”

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Don’t Wait – Investigate

I wish I could magically go back and gift myself the tools I have now….

I wish I could magically go back and gift myself the tools I have now….

When I was young I often held myself back from experimenting and trying new things if I thought it would result in opening myself up to criticism or failure.  It was important to me to appear strong within my family dynamic. I didn’t want to be singled out so I avoided big ‘challenges’ unless I knew I could be successful. As a child I wanted to please my mother but I grew to resent this role and all the other people I tried to please. I wanted a break from myself – from my mind and from the roles I took on. The defensive, rebellious person I had become was not easy to contain. The disparity between being myself and wanting to be seen in my scripted version required lots of energy and time. I just wanted to relax. I tried meditation, I tried spiritual pursuits, I tried relationships, I tried drugs and I tried work. I thought if I had a professional ‘label’ – that by virtue of it, I would not have to explain myself to others. I left what I liked doing (art and other activities) and spent a lot of money and time choosing to become a teacher. The problem was, I didn’t really want to be a teacher. To now realize it didn’t have to be that way is a gift I would like to share with others.

There’s more of course, but the point is that if I had a tool like the Desteni I Process when I was in my teens and twenties I could have saved myself a ton of grief. I would have seen the patterns and beliefs that drove the impulses and decisions I made and I would have realized I have a choice: to not participate in my drama and get on with my life!

It’s not easy to face the realization that you can’t go back and have a ‘do over’ – so those of you who can avoid this, I strongly urge you to do so.

– Testimonial by JL

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All of my past relationships have failed, because I didn’t have a relationship with myself

Carlton shares his experience of walking the Agreement Course offered by Desteni ‘I’ Process

gears-812133_1280“Ok I’m going to keep this simple, short, real and to the point. IT WORKS, I mean it really works. I am referring to the Desteni I Process Agreement Course, where it has assisted and supported me tremendously in my everyday living and the change from the person I used to be, to a more self-aware person, where I have learned how to communicate effectively and build a relationship with myself, where all of my past relationships have failed, because I didn’t have a relationship with myself and did not know how to communicate with women, let alone anyone else effectively for that matter, meaning the point of me really getting to know someone unconditionally was none existent, it was just getting to know them to the point of me being able to get something self-interest related from them and that was it.

For instance when I would meet a girl, a woman, my communication would only go as far as the basics in asking what’s your name, age , where they were from and if they were in a relationship or not and that was it. Not once did I consider asking their interest or perspective on things, because I was too busy stuck in my mind, thinking as all other male do and/or have done in the same situation, about having sex with them, I mean to really get to know someone unconditionally you first have to stop your mind and without the tools to do that, for me it was virtually impossible. So;

Before I started the DIP Pro Agreement Course, I first signed up for and took the FREE online Course DIP LITE, (Desteni I Process LITE) which assisted me with the tools I needed to stop my mind. I recommend starting with this Free Course, which you can find on the Desteni Website, it did wonders for me as a beginner course in learning about my mind, how and why we think and what thoughts/feeling/emotions are and how to stop them and become more self-aware of who we really are.

Up until the point of finding Desteni and taking a few of their online courses, I can self-honestly say that my life was literally a mess, where all my relationships were collapsing, (it they hadn’t already failed) I constantly found myself in conflict with others people in my world and reality, all the decisions I made, ended up not worth deciding on, although I didn’t admit it to myself, I was a very emotional person, I suppressed everything, anything that had to do with change in myself in anyway what so ever, I resisted and to top it off, I was unreliable. So in laymen terms, this was a God send or might I say God find, that I found Desteni. Lol.

After taking the courses, (and of course I’m still learning) Now, when it comes to conflict situations, I’m learning to breathe myself through them and direct the situation to the best possible outcome. I’m learning how to base all my decisions on that which is best for all life. I’m no longer an emotionally driven and/or reactive person, but instead one that directs my actions. I now investigate/introspect my relationship with myself, to ensure that I am not suppressing and/or harboring any emotion and/or feeling reactions. And most of all, I am now able to communicate effectively with others because I have built an intimate relationship with myself.

So if you are ready to really live life and create a life worth living, full of expression with cool relationships, where you’re able to communicate effectively with everyone you come across, I recommend letting your fingers do the walking straight to the Desteni Website, scroll down to DIP Lite (Desteni I Process Lite) and click on Start Lite.


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